Choose the Right Relationship

Choose the Right Relationship

Most people treat dating like trial and error. That's expensive when your time matters.

Most people treat dating like trial and error. That's expensive when your time matters.

Free Guide

10 SF Dates Engineered for Chemistry

10 SF Dates Engineered for Chemistry

Complete itineraries. Exact locations.
Because "let's grab drinks sometime" isn't a plan.

Great at work.
Dating isn't working.

Great at work.
Dating isn't working.


The Exhaustion

It's exhausting to meet new people, maybe go on dates, but have it lead nowhere meaningful. What was the point of all that? This feels exhausting. It's easier being single.

The Mismatch

Apps, speed dating, matchmaking, none of it feels natural. This works for other people, but not me. It just feels like a performance, not compatibility.

The Realization

Doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results is insane. I'm too busy to be wasting time now, especially juggling all my other responsibilities.

Who am I?

Who am I?

Alabama raised. Dartmouth educated. Silicon Valley trained.

Problems I Solve

Problems I Solve

Discreet 1-on-1 work in the Bay Area

Connection

Get more Dates

You're not meeting enough people or they're the wrong fit. Fix how you show up on apps and in person so you're actually creating opportunities.

Build Chemistry

First dates happen but don't go anywhere. Learn to read signals, create genuine connection, and turn attraction into something real.

Evaluate Connection

You can date but relationships fizzle. Learn to identify what you actually want and build something that lasts with the right person.

Presentation

Grooming & Style

Develop your signature look through wardrobe audits, shopping guidance, and personal styling that fits who you are.

Photos & Profiles

Professional dating profile photos, social media presence, and visual storytelling that attracts the right matches.

Interior Design

Optimize your living space for hosting. Create an environment that impresses and facilitates connection.

Testimonials

Testimonials

  • Chen really understands the challenges guys in SF face when it comes to dating. He's figured this stuff out himself and genuinely wants to help others.

    Will, Software Engineer

  • I wouldn't be where I'm at now without Chen's perspective and advice. I was in a rut for the past 7 years. My self-esteem was at an all time low, but now I feel like a completely different person.

    Carrie, Data Analyst

  • I was beginning to date a girl and told Chen about our recent dates. He called out some red flags. Surprise, we broke up a few weeks later.

    Holton, Operations

  • Chen doesn't just offer advice, he goes out and stress tests everything he advises himself. Nothing is generic, it’s all lived experience.

    Shalom, Software Engineer

  • Chen really understands the challenges guys in SF face when it comes to dating. He's figured this stuff out himself and genuinely wants to help others.

    Will, Software Engineer

  • I wouldn't be where I'm at now without Chen's perspective and advice. I was in a rut for the past 7 years. My self-esteem was at an all time low, but now I feel like a completely different person.

    Carrie, Data Analyst

  • I was beginning to date a girl and told Chen about our recent dates. He called out some red flags. Surprise, we broke up a few weeks later.

    Holton, Operations

  • Chen doesn't just offer advice, he goes out and stress tests everything he advises himself. Nothing is generic, it’s all lived experience.

    Shalom, Software Engineer

Get in Touch

Get in Touch